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If you are unable to have children you should not feel like it is the end of happiness. Even for those that get counseling for this it is hard to accept. You get reminded of your situation when you have to attend functions where most people turn up with their children.

For really inspirational and uplifting words on how you can cope with your situation you could look up any of these: encouragement quotes on encouragement scriptures of encouragement from the bible

The first thing that I will say to you is that in every condition there is always hope but to find hope you must first accept the fact you are facing , that you might not be able to have children of your own . It should be something that you can talk about freely and there is no reason why should blame yourself really. There is still a chance at being happy just don’t use having children as a way of defining your happiness.

Probably you might have gotten to a point where you were able to accept it but your spouse has never really gotten used to the idea that he cant have children with you and that’s what’s probably troubling you the most. Obviously such a situation is not easy for the both of you because he has to understand how you feel and at the same time you must put yourself in his shoes and understand how he feels.

Having been in the same situation myself I will tell you that this is one situation that has no clearly defined way of being dealt with. This is one situation that both of you need to stand together in. If you are ever going to talk about this subject try avoiding the house set up or environment. Go out somewhere, for a drive, a picnic where the emotions won’t be so high.

you can access sites that offer words of encouragement and possibly link you with other people in a similat situation. These sites proved to be a source of encouragement for me and helped me move on with my life.